Having bought a condo, we got serious about reducing the amount of "stuff" we have. Reducing it a lot.
We actually started about two years before when we were staging the house for sale. We got a storage unit and filled it with stuff that we thought we might want to keep, but did not need to actually use while the house was on the market. Most everyone told us to minimize the amount of personal stuff, so as to make the house look larger.
We filled the storage unit and kept it for a year. Once we dumped the broker and went FSBO, we realized that we had spent $1000 on storage and had only missed a very small amount of that stuff. It was just that, stuff. Time to lose it. We moved it to an unused basement room and started to get rid of it
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Downsizing is one of the toughest things I have ever done.
We had lived in the house for 17 years. 4,000 square feet of living space with storage everywhere. During that time, whenever we used something we would say, "This item still has value and I might need it someday. I'll just store it in case I will need it again." This is just a deferred decision.
Now, we were forced to make decisions on everything; decisions we should have made years ago.
Decisions to forego potential value in favor of simplicity.
There have been studies stating that we can only make so many decisions per day. In my experience, this is true. We were no longer able to make decisions after about 3 p.m. on most days. In the late afternoon, we would just say, "Dump it here" or, "Put it in a box and we will deal with it later."
Decisions on where to get rid of them.
At first, we attempted to sell items on Craig's List. This actually worked quite well for large items. Small items may not be worth your time, but most people who come for a large item will buy smaller items once they see them.
I may show you my Craigslist hints in a later blog.
Smaller items may be given to relatives. This works well for photographs and heirlooms. I just sent my sister away with a car full of family photos.
Then I gave away most items. My favorite places are:
You can leave some to the new buyer of your house. In our case, this was the first house for the new buyer. We left them a lot of things such as hoses, snow blower, rakes, etc. Even the garage refrigerator, which we could have sold to the electric company.
The remainder goes to the landfill.
Action item
Make material decisions as you go through life. Do not store something just because it might have value or because you might need it someday. You will forget you have it, or it will become obsolete, or you will never need it. At least, once a year (e.g. at spring cleaning). Go through everything you own and dispose of every item for which you cannot identify a near-term need.
Everything. I mean it.
DO NOT store anything.
I may show you my Craigslist hints in a later blog.
Smaller items may be given to relatives. This works well for photographs and heirlooms. I just sent my sister away with a car full of family photos.
Then I gave away most items. My favorite places are:
- Bridgehaven's Treasures Quality Resale Shop
- Habitat for Humanity ReStore
- Salvation Army
- St. Vincent de Paul
You can leave some to the new buyer of your house. In our case, this was the first house for the new buyer. We left them a lot of things such as hoses, snow blower, rakes, etc. Even the garage refrigerator, which we could have sold to the electric company.
The remainder goes to the landfill.
Action item
Make material decisions as you go through life. Do not store something just because it might have value or because you might need it someday. You will forget you have it, or it will become obsolete, or you will never need it. At least, once a year (e.g. at spring cleaning). Go through everything you own and dispose of every item for which you cannot identify a near-term need.
Everything. I mean it.
DO NOT store anything.